It is impossible for change to occur in the family court, because there are few mechanisms for gaining insight into what occurs there. Parents (usually mothers) who have experienced family or sexual violence or abuse (either in relation to themselves or against their children), are afraid to speak out for fear of losing their children. — I made a mistake last week: I published an article that, while I had taken great care to mask any personal details of the mum mentioned in it, ultimately left this mum feeling distressed and fearful of a backlash from the family court judge that had recently separated her and…